Mommies over the years we have Been misinformed about so many things and I honestly feel like we’ve allowed our strength to mentally drain us and strip us of our true magic. As Mothers we possess wayyy…more than just our strength we are composed of intellect, sexiness, compassion, empathy, love, courage, curiosity, humor and even more than that. So why let just one characteristic totally define us. like who from hell told us that we aren’t allowed to clear our Energy out so we can move forward in PEACE.
Forgiveness is for us not them. and it does NOT have to warrant re-admission into our lives it’s simply for us as an individual and our growth. Now if that person has displayed actions that truly line up with their words and a willingness to grow and you see fit to allow them back in well so be it. But why on earth do we still allow people who consistently treat us unkind, lower our character/morals and bring drama to our world to remain in position even long after we’ve expressed the need and desire to do more.
Is it simply for the sake of showing that we’re strong? Do we fear being labeled as unforgiving? Or could it be that we’ve just been totally miseducated on what holding a grudge is? A lot of us have a tendency to ingest things that are way below our core vibrations until we explode from the pain of trying so hard to show that we’ve got someone’s back and that mommies is simply not healthy.
Especially considering the fact that most often the very person who hurts us will paint a miseducated picture of us being unforgiving and holding a grudge but never for once thinking to themselves that in reality you may have already forgiven them you just no longer see a place for them in your life, and that there is no grudge they just maybe haven’t given the best apology they could give (changed mindset and behaviors) because if they had most likely you would have still seen a place for them in your life 🙏🏾
Like really mommies why are we still allowing this type of mindset to remain in tact. I want you to know that it is perfectly fine to realize who you are, what you possesses inside and if neccessary move on to create an environment that breeds love, Peace and prosperity for you and your family. A grudge is when you harbor ill feelings over past actions and won’t move on not when you move on because of someone’s past actions. It’s past time that we learn the difference so we can prioritize, take care of ourselves and vibrate higher it’s just time to Educate ourselves on WHO the F we truly are.